Jorge Alberto Garay

Husband, Father, Authority, Computer Programmer, AntiWar, Hardworker

Jorge Alberto Garay at the park (1979)

San Antonio, Texas

March 17 2009

Ymelda Jizel Garay

Palo Alto College

History 1302 - Spring 2009

 

INTRODUCTION
TRANSCRIPTION
ANALYSIS
TIMELINE
BIBLIOGRAPHY

 

INTRODUCTION

Jorge Alberto Garay was born on December 16, 1953 in ,
Sabinas Hidalgo Nuevo Leon Mexico and raised, He is son of Oscar and Eloisa garay and the oldest of seven children. Jorge, Chela, Oscar, Paci, Carlos, Norberto, and Yolanda. At the age of eight, Jorge had already started to work as a shoe shiner to help out his family as much as possible. When school became unaffordable, he had to drop out of secundaria, middle school, and worked fulltime as a mechanic. Jorge then met his wife at age 18, she being 16 at the time, and moved to to San Antonio Texas ,where he then made his new life in the US and formed his family of six all together. His children are Jorge Alberto Garay Jr., Rosalinda, Elsa, and the baby Oscar. Jorge Alberto Garay is man of many hobbies which are computer programming, fishing, reading, and working. He loves his family very much and you will see through my interview how his life has changed from living in Mexico to living in the US.

 

 

TRANSCRIPTION

What are your earliest childhood memories?
I guess swimming in the river, fishing, going hunting in the woods. My friends and I used to gather in the town plaza.

How was your life in Mexico?
I would not say it was hard, we had food and a home to live in but the modern things like TV and car were not there. TV's were barely coming out only 2 or 3 families in the city had them, so when we wanted to go see TV we would go over friends house to watch it.

Where and who did you live with?
With my mother and father in Sabinas Hidalgo Nuevo Leon and the whole family which was all 8 of us together lived in a two bedroom two bath house.

Jorge at in his new home in San Antonio 1974

What meals did you eat on a daily basis?
Beans, rice, eggs, beef soup, tortillas de arina y tortillas de maiz, not too much fruit or vegetables very little.

Did you go to school and how far did you get?
I went 6 elementary school years and 1 secondary because in secondary school it wasn't free and my family couldn't afford it.

Tell me a typical day in Mexico?
When I was young, go to school, and if it was a good day at least two or three hours to spend then I would shine shoes for a little extra money, not all days were good days because Friday Saturday and Sunday were good because people would go to dances and need shiny shoes.

Did you have a vehicle to get around in?
No, the only thing I had was a bicycle and I was already 12 when I had my first bike.

Where did you first work and how old were you?
Mexico, people start very young, when I went to school I didn't work a full eight hours daily only two or three a day or every other day. On the weekends a little more, but when I wasn't going to school I would work 8 hours. I just bring some money not a lot but a little bit of help. I worked at an electrical shop repairing refrigerators, cars, TV's some things like that.

Did you have to support your family?
No, just help them, I mean the money I would make I would give it to my mother and whatever she'd give me that would be ok.

When did you decide to move to the United States?
When I was 18 or 19, you hear that other people had a good job and a car and that made me want to come.

Did you already have a family?
Yes, me and my wife only and we were 18 and 19 years old.

After coming to the US, in 1979

Explain how you came to the U.S.?
Tourist Visa, you pass and then you stay and then look for work.

When you were already in the U.S. did you already have a job waiting for you?
No, nobody was waiting for me but it wasn't hard to find a job, painting houses then in a car lot then in an electrical shop, that's all I knew what to do.

At the river with his two kids(Rosalinda in the left and Jorge Jr. in the right)

Where do you work now?
I work in a shipping company called SMT Lines and have been working there for thirty years now.

Working at SMT lines

Why did you choose to stay in San Antonio?
I really don't know why, here is where we came and we decided to stay here and raise our children.

How has your life changed from living in Mexico to the U.S.?
I guess leaving most of your family in Mexico and seeing them only maybe once a year or never.

At the pool with Rosalinda in the left and Oscar in his arms, another unidentified cousin

When did you become an American Citizen?
I think it was about 10 years after I came to the U.S.

Why did you take up programming in as a hobby?
It has been like 7 years ago, I love electronics and that's how I know it.

At the house with his kids in 1993

Do you regret or would like to change anything in your life?
No.

Fishing in Corpus Cristi in 2001

Is there anything you would like your family to know about you?
I would say, I tell you and Oscar if you work hard and improve yourself cause if I came to the U.S. and survived with no education then yall should be way better off than what I got. Hard work and education is the key to everything.

Do you like what you have become?
It's my life and I love my family especially my grandchildren, I want to see they grow and be well taken care and that's why I stress on education.

How many shoes did you own when growing up?
I only had one pair of shoes and even till this day I only own one pair as well.

Would you like to add or comment on anything we discussed?
? What I see is, first that we intervene for many years in other countries and I don't think that is right. I don't think we have the right to tell other countries how to run their own government. We go to war because our government tells us to, even though we know it is wrong. So many other things but that's ok, I could talk for hours of what the U.S. could do to maybe improve their situation for my grandchildren and their children's children.

 

 

 Jorge Alberto Garay and Ymelda Jizel Garay

ANALYSIS

What I have learned from my interview was that not everyone experiences the same type things in Mexico. My father in law was well raised and never had to experience what it meant to not have food on the table, as he tells me they may have not had luxury but food was of plenty.
I believe the most important points from my interview was when I was asking abouting his life back in Mexico and how it has changed from being in the US. He does imply a large difference like school not being free and if he could have gone for more years he probably would have been something greater. In my opinion, I know he would have made it through college with a degree in no time. He is just such a bright man that if i didnt know he was from Mexico he could easliy pass as a citizen from the US.
I think I had already known much of his life through mom, my mother in law, whom I love dearly, she told me lots of stories of them when they were young and dating in Mexico. She told me these stories so I could understand my husband better, she says he is just like his dad. I found it amusing to hear and know about their life together. All in all, nobody can tell you their life if it isn't from the primary source and the one who experienced it first hand.
My father in law's life had always been a mystery to me therefore interesting, only because he keeps to himself alot and doesn't say much to anyone about his life. I know there were things he did not want to mention because I noticed certain pauses when I'd ask a question and no response till seconds later. That's ok, I still found him interesting.
The words I chose for my father in law were, husband, father, authority, computer programmer, antiwar and hard worker.
You never think about asking your family about their past and how they came to live in the US or what sort of struggles they had to go through to achieve what we have today.
This interview makes me appreciate him and my dad for taking a risk in crossing over to give their future family a chance to freedom and a better life.

 

 

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ANNOTATED BIBLIOGRAPHY

List a minimum of FIVE sources. There must be links to each of the sources within the transcription.
Here are five examples of annotated sources plus a source for photos/documents.

 

 

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